Cheer me up, Oppo/Unrelated

"Justino6969" (justino6969) 05/15/2014 at 21:49 • Filed to: None

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Girlfriend of 6 years just broke up with me. She said she needs to figure things out, and just wants a "break" to see other people to figure out if I'm the one or not. She said December, possibly sooner. Trouble is, I'm still madly in love with her. I don't really have any one to talk to. What I really need right now is lots of beautiful cars. Thanks in advance, Oppo. Have a Z for your troubles.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:52

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I am going to tell you what to do...Say Anything..... you know the 80's movie he did something ballsy (boom box) and it worked and that movie is true ....do something ballsy and get her back. Oppo believes in you.

Nick, Drives a Cobalt LT > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:54

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On the girl side of this, just let her do her, if she loves you she will coem back, if not, then she was not the one.

I have experienced similar in life, its not worth fighting for a girl who won't be there in the end, go live life, go see who else is out there, that's what I did and no I am engaged to a beautiful beautiful girl.

AthomSfere > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:55

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Uh, worst Z ever.

Nice Vette though!

Sn210 > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:56

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That sucks man, hang in there.

Soloburrito > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:57

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You won't ever love just one woman. Go out there and find another.

It's not easy getting over a long relationship, but the worst thing you can do is sit around and wait. Life has too much to offer.

Manuél Ferrari > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 21:59

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I'm sorry man :((

Have an SSK to feel better:

XJDano > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:00

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first image of "stock rx7" GIS

Good luck.

Manuél Ferrari > Soloburrito 05/15/2014 at 22:02

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Second worst thing you can do: jump into a relationship with the first new girl you meet.

Make sure the next girl is a good one if this relationship doesn't get repaired!

Tom McParland > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:02

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Sorry to hear that man. It sucks most of us have been there. You probably don't want advice now, but the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and do your thing. Give it a few days and check some other ladies when it feels right.

Diesel > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:10

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Go karts is my go to need to unscrew my mind.

$kaycog > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:13

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I'm so sorry. I sincerely hope things work out for you. Have a Ford GTX1.

YoungPadwan > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:16

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I am so sorry have a car and a dawwwwww to help heal the hurt. God has a plan for everyone things work out in the end.

DoubleDragon > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:20

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"I have experienced similar in life, its not worth fighting for a girl who won't be there in the end, go live life, go see who else is out there, that's what I did and no I am engaged to a beautiful beautiful girl."

This guy is right. If we were all there we'd cheer you up bro- focus on what makes you happy. You have been too long with this girl and you don't know how to make yourself happy anymore- find out today and splurge money on yourself, the good stuff, not booze not drugs, not nothing but like arcades, go out for a nice meal with your family, go do something you always wanted to do

If anything borrow some money from her (that you won't return, not a large sum, like $200) if she was a bitch when she left you. And use that to cheer yourself up :)

Justino6969 > DoubleDragon 05/15/2014 at 22:33

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The hard part is she isn't a bitch. She's wonderful. She let me understand exactly what she wanted and made sure to explain everything to me. She was torn to pieces too, and she told me multiple times that she still loves me. She just wants to try being single since she hasn't for 6 years and just let life happen. The main reason I think is that her mom did the same thing; broke up with dad, saw others, realized he was the one, and married him. She said she loves me and I believe her. I just have to play the waiting game and that's what hurts the most.

DoubleDragon > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:43

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nobody "tries" to be single.

At the end of the day, wheter you are together or not is up to both parties. I don't know because im not in the relationship, so I can't comment anything.

but im on your side, and honestly this is what I feel with what you have told me.

If someone leaves a relationship, they are not committed. She is spinning it. She says it nicely because she doesn't want to feel guilty. She still loves you? Yes, but she loves the single life more.

Don't let her into your life when she begs to come back. She is a disease. Trust me, when someone loves you being single is the last thing they want to do. Explain to her what matters to you, that you want her. But if she has to leave even after that, your interest is not what she has at her heart. Would you have someone try to be single after you are married to them 10 years later?

RotaryLover > Justino6969 05/15/2014 at 22:54

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Have a FD man! Keep your chin up! You got us!